There is strife in OA forum, and for once I am beginning to see the logic Quitnet used years ago when things blew up.
1.) this is a site for quitting smoking. There are other places for other things.
2.)We at OA are NO different then anyone else quitting smoking! We are not UNIQUE! AA would call this attitude terminal uniqueness, and it is suggested we don't entertain it. Like it or not, we are part of the overall community of quitters here at Quitnet.
3I.) believe we should be allowed anniversaries, at least the list in one post. But we don't need 5 or six posts that aren't even quit related, all of that stuff could be put in one post, and let people read it.
3.) the people who are causing the problems to begin with are still there, and need to be either removed, or dealt with by admin.
It is my belief that anyone can quit, but if they don't want to they won't. I don't believe in supporting the slipper, and anyone with any kind of program would know this is enabling. And its bad for the person still smoking. It should be stopped,.
